Saturday, August 2, 2025

Voices: Live Like a Mist - July 27, 2025


Eagle Brook - Guest Speaker Bob Merritt

The days might seem long, but life?  It's short, and we don't get re-dos.  So don't miss out on even the littlest moments God's given you today.

Those baptised last weekend - die to self to live the way God wants us to live.  

Been five years since he was the senior pastor.

James 4:14 - how to live our life.  We are just a mist.  What ever you are going through is temporary.  Life is short and how we should live it.

Hunting story - 6 years of preparing and dreaming. 800 pound Elk and he hit the tree.  It is no longer about the kill... it is about the moments that lead up to and which follow it that are the blessing. 

Enjoy the little things...

Your life is so short - enjoy the little things the moments of life

#1 Do some good every single day. James 4:17, In all our planning fir thr future, we can miss the beauty of today. HUG people. Smile at people. Give a kind word. What is your life all about.

- Love the Lord

- Love Others

#2 Give up Control. Let go of things you can not control. James 5:7 Stop stressing about things you can not control. Focus on what you can control. We can control how much you consume.  Love is a behavior, it is a choice. Feed your faith and God will honor your life. We all have difficult people in your life. Don't allow them to control our peace and our joy.

- Lower your expectations.

- Limit your exposure. Proverbs 13:20

- Outlast them - wait them out.

- Pray - sometimes all you can do is ask God to help you control your anger and emotions.  Sometimes the person that we need to control firsyt is ourself.

Jesus coming is near. James 5:8 Trust him. It can take time, it can take years, but he is coming for you

#3 Don't live life mad. James 5:9 It is ok to get angry. Ephesians 4:26 Do not be the person who is always mad. Be grateful and you won't live mad. Thank God for coffee; Genesis 1:11 It is a miracle, watermellon.  Sight is a miracle. Puppies are one too. 

#4 Persevere through difficulty. James 5:10-11 Blessed are those who push through - they are blessed.  God has a purpose for our pain. Job 42:10 God is working for my good. Persevere and push through. Bower (basset hound), was put to sleep after 15 years. There is a kind of grief in life that you can not fix. It increases our joy.


Blessed are those who push through!


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Living a Meaningful Life: Lessons from the Book of James 
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Summary 
The recording is a sermon by Bob Merritt, a former senior pastor, who shares insights on living a meaningful life based on the Book of James. He emphasizes the brevity of life, likening it to a mist, and outlines four ways to live purposefully: doing good daily, giving up control, not living in anger, and persevering through difficulties. Merritt shares personal anecdotes, including a hunting story and a family wedding, to illustrate his points. He stresses the importance of relationships, gratitude, and trusting in God's plan. The sermon concludes with encouragement to live with purpose and faith, trusting that Jesus is coming and that God has a plan for each life. 

Action Points 
  • Pray for those who were baptized last weekend. 
  • Continue to support and pray for those who have taken steps of faith. 
  • Reflect on personal relationships and consider reaching out to loved ones. 
  • Practice gratitude daily to combat living in anger. 
  • Trust in God's plan and persevere through personal difficulties. 

Key Topics 

Introduction to the Sermon Series 'Voices' 
The speaker introduces the sermon series 'Voices,' highlighting the diversity of speakers and perspectives. Bob Merritt, a former senior pastor, is welcomed back to share his insights. Merritt's background and current role in coaching pastors are briefly mentioned. 

Reflections on Baptism and Personal Growth 
Merritt reflects on the significance of baptism and the ongoing journey of personal growth and faith. He emphasizes the importance of daily self-denial and living in accordance with God's will, acknowledging that life is imperfect but encouraging perseverance. 

Life's Brevity and Living with Purpose 
Drawing from the Book of James, Merritt discusses the transient nature of life, likening it to a mist. He urges listeners to live with purpose, highlighting the temporary nature of current struggles and the importance of seizing opportunities to do good. 

Personal Anecdote: Hunting Story 
Merritt shares a personal hunting story to illustrate the lesson that life is about the journey and experiences rather than the end goal. He reflects on the importance of appreciating the moments and relationships that make life meaningful. 

Doing Good and Building Relationships 
Merritt emphasizes the importance of doing good daily and nurturing relationships. He shares a personal story about attending a family wedding, highlighting the impact of small acts of kindness and the value of being present for loved ones. 

Giving Up Control and Trusting God 
The sermon discusses the importance of relinquishing control over uncontrollable aspects of life, such as weather and other people's behavior. Merritt advises focusing on what can be controlled and trusting God to handle the rest, using the metaphor of a farmer waiting for rain. 

Dealing with Difficult People 
Merritt offers advice on handling difficult people, suggesting strategies like lowering expectations, limiting exposure, and praying for patience and understanding. He emphasizes the importance of controlling one's responses and maintaining peace and joy. 

Living with Gratitude 
Merritt shares how practicing gratitude has transformed his life, encouraging listeners to appreciate everyday blessings. He highlights the joy found in simple pleasures and the importance of recognizing the miraculous in the mundane. 

Persevering Through Suffering 
The sermon concludes with a discussion on perseverance through suffering, drawing on the story of Job. Merritt encourages listeners to trust in God's plan and find strength in faith, even amidst life's challenges and losses.

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Living a Meaningful Life: Lessons from the Book of James

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Pastor Jason Strand    00:06 God speaks to us through a variety of voices. Whether it's a funny story, a challenging idea, a word of encouragement, God can meet us right where we are. We're in a message series called Voices with a different gifted speaker each week, bringing their own unique perspective, wisdom, and Heart for God's word.

Pastor Jason Strand    00:27 Bob Merritt was our senior pastor at Eaglebrook for twenty nine from nineteen ninety one to twenty twenty. Now he coaches and advises pastors and church leaders, drawing on his own experiences of both success and struggle. Bob is the author of three books, Proud dad of two kids and grandpa to seven grandkids, and the lucky husband to his high school sweetheart, Lori. Please welcome back my friend, Bob Merrit.

Pastor Bob Merritt    01:04 Thank you. They did that last night. And my family sits up here and I can see them. They don't stand. That touches me in a place in my soul that you'll never understand. Thank you for that. I love this church. I love what God is doing through you and through this church, our leadership. Jason's doing such a fantastic job. I'm so grateful to him. Those of you who were baptized last weekend, I just have been praying for you all week long that this would be a new beginning in your life, that God would do a new work because of your obedience in going public with your faith. We all make mistakes, and even after being baptized, you'll make mistakes. Life is not perfect. It never will be. But I'm just so proud of those of you who took that step of obedience. You know, denying yourself, laying down your life, being buried in the watery grave, if you will. Just dying to self and then being raised to new life and dying to self is an everyday thing.

Pastor Bob Merritt    02:32 Even as a pastor and Christian, I need to die to myself every single day in order to live in the way that. That God wants me to live. But way to go. Those of you who are baptized, praying for you will continue to do that. You know, it's been over five years since I stepped down as senior pastor of this amazing church. And on my last day, the whole church showed up. Two kids, my two kids spoke, the dog came. Blue, by the way, is good. People ask about blue. They never ask about our grandkids, but they ask about the dog. But the minute we got home, here's what my wife said after that service. She said, well, that was your funeral. She said, I'm not going through that again. When you die, we're gonna put you in a box and bury you out back. My wife's very pragmatic. I love that about her. But ever since my funeral, I'VE wondered about my life and really what it all means.

Pastor Bob Merritt    03:34 And so I'm gonna dive into the book of James a little bit today with you. James is such a great book, teaching us how to live our Christ. Those of us who are followers of Christ, look how James describes our life. He says, what is your life? Great question. Have you ever thought about that? What is your life? He says you are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. He says we're just a mist. I should have come on tried this earlier. But he says we're just a mist that appears for a while and then we're gone. Which means that whatever you're going through right now is temporary. Whatever you and I are going through right now, whether it's good or bad, is temporary. It also means that if we're going to do something significant with our lives, we really better get to it. The title of this talk today is Live like a Mist. Since life is short, how should we live it?

Pastor Bob Merritt    04:51 And James touches on four ways we should do that. But before we get into the verses, I want to tell you a hunting story because you are starving for hunting stories. So last summer I spent hours shooting my bow because I finally drew a coveted Montana out tank. And my good friend Ron Iverson lives out there. Ron and Pam are watching right now today from Montana. And Ron would guide me for eight days in September, last September. So Ron has guided me five other times. We've come close. But some years you don't even see an elk. So if I ever got a chance, I was practicing and practicing so I would be ready. First two days we didn't see anything. But the third morning Ron did some bugling and immediately. I love that sound by the way. Beautiful sound. Immediately a mature bull answered back about a quarter mile away and Ron quickly grabbed his cow call and literally it's called the hoochie mama.

Pastor Bob Merritt    06:02 That's what it's called. And this is what a cow elk sounds like. So Ron was doing this and his bull elk hears it and he wants to come to see this co Ron told me to move one hundred yards up the ridge and get ready. I tell you, my heart was pounding out of my chest. The adrenaline was surging through my body. Ron kept calling, the bull kept coming. We could hear him coming. Six years, six years of preparing and dreaming came down to this. One of the most intense and surreal moments of my entire life. By now this eight hundred pound animal was coming fast and the first thing I through the timber where the tips of his Antlers just kind of swaying back and forth. Then, steam blowing out his nostrils, he closed to one hundred yards. Seventy five yards. I drew my bow. And at fifty yards, I had this six inch window between two pine trees. And I thought, this is it. All the practicing, all the waiting and trying, for this one single moment, I held steady, I took a deep breath, I let it fly.

Pastor Bob Merritt    07:30 And smack, right into a tree. The elk ran off, out of my life, gone forever. Here's a photograph of my arrow that just sunk into the tree and I'm unscrewing it. Ron is making fun of me. That's why I'm smiling. Twenty years ago, though, I would have been so upset by this, it would have bothered me for months. Here's what I'm learning. After sixty eight years of life, it's no longer about the kill. It's no longer about the trophy or the deal. It's more about all the moments leading up to and after it that really matter in life. It's about the woods. It's about the sunsets, the mountain streams, and the absolute joy of even seeing an animal that. But mostly it's about sharing with a good friend and knowing that God has blessed us with all of it. Well, the next morning, we were out again. And two hundred yards away, we spotted not another elk, but a grizzly bear that was coming our way.

Pastor Bob Merritt    08:48 Now, you do not want this to happen when you're carrying a bow. I literally jumped behind Ron and hid behind him, and then I pulled out my bear spray. Ron, however, unsnapped a. Fifty seven Magnum that was strapped to his chest. And I thought, I'm standing here with a spray can and he's got a. Fifty seven mag. Seriously, I'm Pee Wee Herman and this is Clint Eastwood standing next to me. The bear eventually caught our wind and ran off the other way. But, man, what a moment. What a moment. I love what author Robert Ralph says about life. He says in Enjoy the Little Things, for one day, we will look back and realize that the little things were actually the big things. So true. So James asks, what is your life? He says, it's so short. Don't miss the little things. And then he mentions four ways to not miss the small moments. And the first way is this. Today.

Pastor Bob Merritt    10:05 Do some good every single day. He says, since life is short, anyone who knows the good he ought to do and doesn't do it actually sins. So I want to raise a question. Is there good that you and I ought to do today, or is our schedule so full there's Actually, no time for doing good. James warns us. He says it this way. He says, there are those who say, you know, today or tomorrow, we'll go to a certain city. We'll stay there maybe a year. We'll even do business. We'll make a profit. But James says, how do you even know what's going to happen tomorrow? And notice here, they've got it all planned out. When? Today or tomorrow. Where? To a certain city, not sure how long, for about a year. What are they going to do? They're going to expand their business and make a profit. Now, there's nothing wrong with making trips and making money. What he's saying is this. That in all of our planning for the future gang, we can miss the urgency.

Pastor Bob Merritt    11:19 We can miss the beauty, the absolute gift of what today is, what today holds for us. He says, you don't even know what's going to happen tomorrow. So anybody who knows the good he or she ought to do today and doesn't do it misses the point. One of the things that I don't want to miss are the little opportunities to do good that come along every single day. Things like a hug. I have become a hugger. Shocking, But I have been a smile, a kind word. Two years ago, we got a wedding invitation. And it was for the son of my wife's sister, Carolyn. But I immediately dismissed. Cause it was in Baltimore. And who wants to go to Baltimore for a wedding? Plus, Carolyn and I have some history that goes way back to when I was dating her sister Laurie in high school. I didn't like the crowd she hung with. And she didn't like me, always pointing that out to her. In fact, this is prom night.

Pastor Bob Merritt    12:35 We were just mad. We were always mad. It didn't matter about what, sometimes about nothing. We were just mad. We didn't like each other at all. Today, Carolyn, who's in the foreground here, one of my favorite people. And it meant the world to her that we would come to her son's wedding in Baltimore. The night we left the reception hall to come home, we were saying our goodbyes. And Carolyn singled me out of about a hundred people. And this is what she said. She said, bob, I can't tell you how much it means to us that you came to Andy's wedding. And I kind of brushed it off, said, of course we come. And then Carolyn did something I will never forget. She took my face in her hands and she said, bob, look at me. Tears were pooling in her eyes. And she said, I will never forget that you came. And the words you said in your toast to Andy about being a real man was so good for every young man here.

Pastor Bob Merritt    13:46 And then she said, I love you, Mom. I mean, what's that worth? We arrived home tired. I was behind at work, hadn't exercised in four days. But the moments spent with Carolyn and Tim were so good. I have missed way too many of those moments. So James says, look, what is your life? What's it all about, gang? Isn't it mostly about relationships? You know, Jesus, when he was pressed on this, he said, look, life comes down to two things. Do these two things and your life will work. Love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, soul and mind. Have a relationship with the Creator who loves you and knows you. And the second thing he said, love others. If you do those two things, you got life nailed. James said, anyone who knows the good he should do and doesn't do it mainly in relational. The relational world misses the point. That's why. Does anybody here need to get on a plane and go visit a son or a daughter, a sister or brother?

Pastor Bob Merritt    15:09 Or maybe just send a text, a kind word, make a call. One of my favorite Instagram reels of all time is of an older Irish couple who are recording a message for their daughter who just had a baby. And they totally mess it up. I want you to watch this and just smile. Take a look. Hi. Hope you're having a wonderful time. Won't belong now till you hold your. Please. Sorry, Joe, we're not used to making videos here. I know. Everything will be fine. Everything will be fine for your dog. Oh, sorry, love. We have the now. Anyway. Can't wait to see her. Hold her in our arms. Know you and Sha will make wonderful parents. I'm sorry, O. He's laughing at me. Anyway, hope you have a great day, sweetheart. We will see you soon. Yeah. I just love these two. Don't you wish they were your parents or grandpa? I mean, they're just good people wanting to do a good thing. First way to live like a mess, do some good every day.

Pastor Bob Merritt    17:01 Second way, give up control. I'm a bit of a control person. I like to be in control. Most of us do. But people who know that life is short begin to learn they can't control everything. They shouldn't try to control everything. They need to let go of things they can't control. So. Verse seven. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its crop. He has no control over this. How patient he has to be for the fall and spring rains. I just Want to ask anybody here? Waiting for something that is beyond your control, like a promotion or a ring or a date, he says, look, a farmer has to wait and be patient because he has no control over certain things, like the weather. So what does he do? He does what only he can do. He plows his field, he plants his seed, and then he has to wait patiently for rain. When you live like a mist, you stop stressing so much about things you can't control.

Pastor Bob Merritt    18:26 Like the way weather or world events or another person's behavior. We have no control over those things. So what should we do? Focus on what we can control. Dang. We can't control what's on the news. That just spikes our anxiety. But we can control how much we watch of it. Same with social media. You know, after scrolling through Instagram, not once have I said, oh, I feel so much better about myself. I always feel worse. We can't control what's on our screens, but we have a hundred percent control over how much we consume it. I tell my kids all the time, Megan, Dave, control what you can control. Number one, love your. Love your spouse. Love, by the way, is not a feeling. Primarily, it's a behavior. So when you love your spouse, if you're married, you learn how to forgive. You learn how to overlook faults. And every one of us has many, many faults.

Pastor Bob Merritt    19:31 You learn to bite your tongue. You learn to give up certain things. That's what love is. It's a behavior, it's a choice. It's not necessarily a feeling. Feelings come. I tell my kids, control, love your spouse, raise your kids, which is the second most difficult thing you'll ever do in your life. Raise them, you can control some of that. Go to work. That's a thought. You have control over some of that. Most of that. Fraud in your faith. That's up to you to feed your faith and grow in your faith and God. I tell my kids this all the time, control what you can control. And I'm telling you, God will honor your life. Another thing we can't control is other people. Have you noticed that? Do you have anybody in your life who's difficult? I asked that question last night. Some lady back here, but just the guy sitting right next to her. Yeah, this guy right here.

Pastor Bob Merritt    20:36 I don't know what's up. We all have difficult people in our lives. It could be the person we're married to. Marriage is hard. It could be another parent who just annoys the heck out of you because their child is on your child's soccer team. And they just drive you nuts. Worse than nuts. Could be a coach, could be a co worker, could be a teammate, a neighbor. I've had that neighbor, by the way. We all have difficult people we can't control. But what's tragic is when we allow somebody else to control us, to control our peace and our joy. Friends. We can't control the other people, but we have one hundred percent control over our responses to them. I gave this a lot of thought this week, actually this whole last month. How should we respond to difficult people? Four quick tips. Number one, lower your expectations. People aren't that good. I'm not. You're not?

Pastor Bob Merritt    21:48 Don't expect a foolish person to be wise or a dishonest person to be honest or a toxic person to be kind. A foolish, dishonest or toxic person will always be that way because that's who they are. Stop being so shocked when a fool behaves like a fool. Lower your expectation. Second, limit your exposure. This is so important. It is okay to lovingly avoid a fool. Proverbs thirteen twenty. Love this verse. A companion of fools suffers harm. I take this verse very seriously. It is a warning to avoid people who don't take responsibility for their foolishness. Boorish, toxic behavior. Did you see him in aisle four? Duck into aisle six. That's okay. Third, difficult people sometimes just outlast them. Sometimes you just gotta wait them out until they just kind of die off or whatever. This the eleven o', clock, I get a little loose. Neighbors move.

Pastor Bob Merritt    23:20 Co workers quit. Classmates graduate. Just outlast them. Finally, form. Here's the biblical word. Pray. Biblical response this is so true. Dang. Sometimes all you can do is say, God, help me. Help me control my emotions. Help me control my anger. God, would you fill me in this moment? Fill me with your spirit. Fill me with your love, your joy and self control. By the way, you know who else is difficult? I. I know that's shocking for some of you. I can be very different. I can be very self centered. I can be very petty. I can be very harsh and unfair to the point where you'd wonder he's a bastard. I love this. I agree with this quote from author John Ortberg. He says we have all been idiots and we'll be idiots again. It is that bad. So true. Sometimes the first person we need to control is ourselves. Control. You can control the virus plows his field, he plants his seed and then he waits patiently for God to show up.

Pastor Bob Merritt    24:55 Ben James adds a very interesting statement at the end of this. It says for Jesus coming is near. Farmer has to wait patiently. He's planted his seeds. He's waiting for Jesus. It's kind of an odd state. What it means is that no matter what you're going through in life right now, Jesus is coming. He has come. He will come. He sees what you're going through, how hard it is sometimes. Friends, Jesus is coming. Maybe you're single right now, you don't want to be. By the way, I have a huge heart for young people in their twenties, single, wanting a relationship. And it's not happening for whatever reason. Twenties are very difficult. Trying to figure life out, careers, relationships, all of that. And you're tempted, sometimes you're tempted to make a bad decision out of desperation. If you're single right now, God sees you. Jesus is coming. He said, I'll never leave you or forsake you.

Pastor Bob Merritt    26:19 He is with you. He knows all about that. Trust him. Maybe you're in a job without much purpose. So you show up, you put in your time and wonder, is this ever going to get better? And it can take time, it can take years. But if you, you control what only you can control, I promise that Jesus will reward your effort. He is coming for you. Maybe you've prayed for children and it's your deepest sorrow and you wonder if God even cares anymore. I don't know why, I don't know how, but if you will trust him. Jesus is coming for you. Maybe not, not in the way you think, but he's coming. He will come. He has come. And he will show you his goodness in ways you might not even expect. Or maybe it's just a sadness that you can't even explain. James says our life is so short. And he promises that no matter what's happening right now, Jesus is coming for you in this life and the next.

Pastor Bob Merritt    27:27 The farmer plows his field, he plants his seeds. He controls what only he can control. He shows up, he does the right things, and then he trusts that the right time in the right way. God knew what only God. Third way to live Like a mist. Don't live mad. Don't live mad. He says, don't grumble against each other or God will judge you. And the word grumble here is in the present perfect tense, and it refers to someone who's just always mad, just always in a bad mood. Don't anybody like that. Hey, it's okay to get angry. In fact, we should get angry at things like theft and abuse and dishonesty. But the Bible says, in your anger, in your anger, don't sin. It's okay to get angry, but don't let it turn into ongoing anger. Do you know anybody who just. They're just mad. They wake up mad. They go to work mad. They drive mad, for sure. They wait in line mad. Is that you?

Pastor Bob Merritt    28:58 I lived mad for a very long time. I had almost no patience. Critical. Harsh. I still struggled with these things. By the way. My wife and I used to go on long walks together. And there was a lady on our route who watched us from her window. And I'd never met this lady, but I heard through the grapevine that she had a name for me. She called me the Mad Walker. Apparently, I walked mad. But in recent years, I'm happy to tell you I have found something finished, changed me. Mister Gratitude. Because when you look for things to be grateful for, it cures you from living man. First. First thing I do every single morning. I did it this morning. I thank God that I'm alive. That he's. That he's actually gifting me another day. It's amazing that I can feel this new day. I thank God that I'm alive and that the absolute joy of mourn. Coffee with French vanilla creamer.

Pastor Bob Merritt    30:08 It's heaven. You tea drinkers. What are you doing? Coffee. Have you ever thanked God for the coffee bean that comes from a tropical plant that God created from the very beginning and the vanilla bean that originated from Reunion island in the Indian Ocean? God sent, said, let the land sprout with every sort of seed bearing plant. When was the last time you marveled at a watermelon seed? Can the camera catch this? Just tiny. When was the last time? I love what William Jennings Brown wrote about the watermelon seed. When you can tell me how this siege is. Sprouts as a tiny leaf that turns into a sprawling vine that blooms yellow flowers that forms a hard surface of green with a red heart so delicious it drips down your chin. When you can explain the miracle of the watermelon seed, or peach, apple, pear or avocado seed, only then can you explain the miraculous work of God.

Pastor Bob Merritt    31:22 This comes from this. You've got to be joking. You're not just seeing a watermelon in Sam's Club or Costco. You're seeing a miracle every time you see it. The only proper response is gratitude. Sight. Your retina transmits data through an optic nerve at a rate of ten million bits per second. And I don't understand any of that. What I do understand is this body part filled with fluid and nerves and muscles can see a million different Shades of color. Your eye has the ability to pick that up. Some people can't see color. Grateful for puppies, Grateful for God's grace. Grateful that God has forgiven a sinner like me and continues to do so. James says, your life is a mist, gang. Don't live it madness. Life's too short for that. If you live it grateful, I'm telling you, it'll change your life. It'll change your marriage, it'll change your family, it'll change your friendships, your work, culture, the whole thing.

Pastor Bob Merritt    32:50 Mostly, though, it'll change you. Wake up, be grateful for what God has done in your life. Finally, when you live like a mist, you learn to persevere through difficulty. James five eleven says this. Be patient. He says, be patient in the face of suffering. Be patient for blessed. This is kind of strange. For blessed are those who push through, persevere through the hard times in life. You've heard of Job's perseverance, seeing what God finally brought about with him. Friends, everybody suffers in this world. But those of us who have Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord, who've received him into our life know that our suffering is temporary and that God has a purpose for our pain. He doesn't cause our pain, but he uses it for greater purposes that often we don't see to form our character, to form things like tenacity and perseverance. Wisdom. James references Job in a two day period.

Pastor Bob Merritt    34:06 Lost his family, health, money. He lost everything. But his faith never wavered. He didn't understand his pain, but he had a quiet calm that no matter what happened to him, God was in control and God had a purpose for his life. The Bible said God made Job prosperous again, gave him twice as much as he had before because he persevered through suffering. What I've learned when I'm going through a season of suffering is I might not understand why in the moment, but that in all things, even in the hard and painful things, God is working for my good, that God has a plan and purpose for my life, and that my job is to persevere, push through, see what God has for me. A few months after they were married fifteen years ago, my daughter and son in law bought a basset hound who they named Bauer after Jack Bauer. Even though Jack Bauer is a guy, Bower's a girl and this dog was often the steady source of calm through the early years of marriage, med school, residency and now the last four years relocating here in Minnesota.

Pastor Bob Merritt    35:36 Bowers, droopy eyes and floppy ears endeared her to everyone. So Last fall, when it was becoming too hard for her to walk, we knew it was time. And the girls, the gals at the vet, were so kind. They were so compassionate. We lifted Bauer out of the back part of my truck that day. She was able to walk in. But I'm telling you, it was heartbreaking to watch my daughter lie on the floor grieving, holding her beloved dog for one last time, just beyond words. So Laurie and I got down on the floor with her and we held our daughter and we cried with her. Eventually, the vet asked if we were ready and she gave the medication. Laura closed her eyes, her breathing slowed, and she was gone. Fifteen years of loyalty and love. Fifteen years of waiting at the door, howling in protest when they left her home alone. Fifteen years letting the kids lay on her, tug on her ears, pushing her away from their snacks.

Pastor Bob Merritt    37:21 That evening, Nellie drove to her house after work, and they lifted Bauer out of our car. He carried her to the backwoods and laid her next to the hole that we had dug. And then Nellie, this wonderful man of God, got down on his hands and knees and he just cried over her. None of us said a word as we let Nellie grieve and say his goodbye. A couple months later, the kids made a cross, and we planted it there to remember the sweet. As I reflect on this and other losses that we experience in life, there is a kind of grief in life that you can't fix. There are losses that you can't avoid. You just have to go through them and trust. And God will meet you. You. God will carry you. Some of you, it's not a dog that you've lost. Some of you here today, watching online, fourteen campuses just lost your spouse of fifty years or sixty. Or you've lost a son or a daughter. I can't imagine.

Pastor Bob Merritt    38:51 Or you've lost a friendship, or maybe your health. Through his servant James, God says to us, be patient in the face of suffering. He says there is a blessing, there is a strengthening. It's counterintuitive, but he says there's an actual joy that comes through suffering. My capacity for joy has actually increased because of suffering. Isn't it true? If it wasn't for suffering, we wouldn't know the joy of being comforted. If it wasn't for sadness, we wouldn't know the joy of being happy. If it wasn't for loneliness, we wouldn't know the joy of being loved. If it wasn't for fear, we wouldn't know the joy of having peace. And if it wasn't for death, Jesus Christ our Lord and our Savior. When he died, it was darkness around the planet. The universe cried. It was over. There was no hope. But that death was the cause for the best moment in human history.

Pastor Bob Merritt    40:15 The resurrection of Jesus Christ, who defeated to death. And paid for my sins. And paid for your sins. And he says, whoever put their faith in me, I will forgive you and I will raise you as well someday. The worst moment three days later became the very best moment. Some of you are going to season of suffering right now. And it's so blinding that it's hard to see your way through. It's hard to see any sort of purpose in it. Dang. It's a hard world. It is. But God understands it. And he sees your quiet moments of desperation and loss. He knows all about your loneliness. He sees you right now, right here. He loves you. He is for you. He. He has a plan for your life. And he gives us this promise. Be patient in the face of suffering. For blessed, blessed are those who push through, telling you Jesus is coming. In the meantime, in this brief existence we call life, do something good every day.

Pastor Bob Merritt    41:47 Give up control of the things that are beyond your control. Don't live life mad. Push through the tough stuff. And I'm telling you, if you do, God still has a plan and purpose for your life. The farmer plows his field, he plants his seeds. And then he waits patiently for God. So great to be with all of you today. Next week, Jason kicks off a brand new series called Escape Room. It's about how to deal with temptation. We're all tempted in this life. Jason's going to deal with that. Let me offer a quick prayer. We'll be on our way. Father, thank you so much for your love and grace. Thank you for your forgiveness. Thank you for puppies, thank you for watermelons. Thank you for all the great things you pour into our lives. We love you. You too. We're so grateful for you in Jesus.


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